Life... full of events, situations, full of feelings ... full of a million things. WOW! I couldn't imagine that the one can experience that huge amount of things all @ a time.
when I came up with the idea of writing the lessons I've learned, it was so hard to start because simply I didn't know from where to begin ... But ... Here we go!! :)
I'll take you in a journey into my life sharing with you the lessons I've learned :)
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Friends ..... those people in our lives.
Friendship ..... This relationship between you and those people you call "friends"
Friends & friendship ... was my 1st lesson.
Before I start talking, I 'll tell you something .... I believe that Friendship is like a boat !! a boat where 2 must row ... facing all wind and thunder that blow ... the boat can't get along with one person alone ... those 2 friends must stick together no matter what ... supporting each other ... caring about each other... to get there to the safe shore at the end.
My friendship boats faced a lot of storms this year, faced some really strange things!!! from those, I figured out which boat is fake and which boat is real .... which boat is gonna stand in the face of the storm and resists ... and which one won't ...
don't think it's easy to make such discovery and go with it without feeling any pain... it's completely the opposite!!! you'll sometimes feel your heart bleeding as if someone is squeezing it so hard with both hands... but you have to!! you have to make that search and discover !! you need to!! it'll hurt you, YES .. but in the end, you are gonna feel extreme relief.
You know, in your life, you need someone who make you feel safe and secure, someone who gives you the feeling that no matter what happens, no matter how you are, no matter what you feel or mood you are in, that someone will always be there for you to care forever... someone who gives you the feeling that's he's a fixed corner in your life although you know that nothing is fixed in this world. It doesn't matter who's that person .... one of your family, your team mate, your friend, your lover .... but you just need him !!! that's not only me ... it's Human nature !!!
I've made that discovery and I'm so happy about it ... those persons really are a fixed corner in my life ... I dunno really how I could have been without them. It doesn't matter what happens in life including ups and downs in relationships, but those, I can't stand any downs with them ... my life would definitely fall apart !!
Guys, I want to tell you that you really mean so much to me :) & May ALLAH keep us BEST & dearest friends ever :)
But, that's not the only discovery I made, as you discover the good, you discover the bad ... well, let's not say "bad" ... it's simply you discover who's close & who's not... you make a filtration for people you know... you put everyone in his place in your life categories. And how painful it feels when you figure out that you were putting someone in a higher category than he deserves!!
but as I said you have to do it, it's how life goes !!! it's a rolling wheel !! people come and people go !!
I've learned to be careful in judging people, think wisely before putting them into one of my life categories...
I've learned to control my feelings and so, my actions...
I've learned when to be so caring and when to be tough but in the same time ... without breaking a heart.
I've learned that ..... " Real and True friends are a priceless gift that can't be neither bought or forgotten, A blessing from ALLAH that put a smile on your face and fill your heart with happiness & Joy. They are a precious treasure that is rare to find .... So search for them among people you know, find them, love them, care for them & NEVER let them go :) "
That was lesson no. 1 ... a lesson that made me real strong .....
to be continued ....
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