People always catch my attention.
Who they are, how they think, their beliefs, their perceptions, their attitude, their characters, their hidden and unhidden potentials, qualities and flaws.
It's always interesting for me to sit and watch & take notes. You just learn a lot!
Moreover, our human relationships; with all what's in it, with all their changes, their ups and downs. They just stimulate my curiosity.
And one of the most important thing I learned through watching this and going through a lot, is that it's always good to know where you stand in other people's lives.
You may be know it the tough way, most probably you'll only know it this way. It's hard, yes! But Life goes On, and nothing -absolutely Nothing- stands still. We always change.
But in same time, it is a good indication of how much effort you need to put in what relationship.
It's important! Because as my leader always tells me "it's absurd to put 99% effort in nothing not worthy of more than 60%... it's stupid". And as Yasmin Mogahed says, it's an "unhealthy attachment".
& we aren't stupid creatures; we aren't supposed to be!
I found out that I was giving my 99% to something not worthy of more than 1%!
Stupid, huh?! It is, yes! But the 1st step to solve a problem is to define it and then UP YOU GO!
& Add to that, that I wouldn't ever know how much I worth and how much myself needs my care if I didn't bump into this mistake.
Everything in its right timing for a wise reason we may or may not know.
But to this person, I thank you. I really do
And a last word, I truly wish you happiness and peace of mind. Let us pray for each other to get that soon :)
Who they are, how they think, their beliefs, their perceptions, their attitude, their characters, their hidden and unhidden potentials, qualities and flaws.
It's always interesting for me to sit and watch & take notes. You just learn a lot!
Moreover, our human relationships; with all what's in it, with all their changes, their ups and downs. They just stimulate my curiosity.
And one of the most important thing I learned through watching this and going through a lot, is that it's always good to know where you stand in other people's lives.
You may be know it the tough way, most probably you'll only know it this way. It's hard, yes! But Life goes On, and nothing -absolutely Nothing- stands still. We always change.
But in same time, it is a good indication of how much effort you need to put in what relationship.
It's important! Because as my leader always tells me "it's absurd to put 99% effort in nothing not worthy of more than 60%... it's stupid". And as Yasmin Mogahed says, it's an "unhealthy attachment".
& we aren't stupid creatures; we aren't supposed to be!
I found out that I was giving my 99% to something not worthy of more than 1%!
Stupid, huh?! It is, yes! But the 1st step to solve a problem is to define it and then UP YOU GO!
& Add to that, that I wouldn't ever know how much I worth and how much myself needs my care if I didn't bump into this mistake.
Everything in its right timing for a wise reason we may or may not know.
But to this person, I thank you. I really do
And a last word, I truly wish you happiness and peace of mind. Let us pray for each other to get that soon :)
